Coaching for good-hearted leaders

Create positive change, surprisingly quickly.

A calm, considered way to lead. Judy Barber has spent twenty years coaching leaders through big decisions, the complexities of managing many roles, and solving the apparently unsolvable, one unhurried conversation at a time.

Judy Barber

The Slow
Coach
Approach

How good-hearted leaders create positive change, surprisingly quickly
Judy Barber
9 Slow Coach approaches
20+ Years coaching leaders
1 Published book
A smart and practical guide to harnessing the power of slow in a world too fast for its own good.
Carl Honoré, author of In Praise of Slow
About Judy

A calm, friendly, memorable way of coaching.

Judy's best clients call her a Slow Coach, and not because things can't change more quickly than you might imagine. For twenty years she has been coaching leaders through big decisions, the complexities of managing many roles, and the kinds of problems that look, at first glance, unsolvable.

Her style is calm, friendly, personal, and enlivened with memorable stories. She supports you in putting the direct into Director, without losing your human touch.

An enthusiastic foodie, Judy would love Slow Coaching to become as popular as the Slow Food movement: unhurried, nourishing, and quietly transformative.

Judy Barber Author · Coach · Slow Practitioner
The Nine Slow Coach Approaches

Nine essential aspects of leadership, in three movements.

Like a symphony, the Slow Coach Approach unfolds in three movements. Each approach stands alone, and together they compose a complete way of leading that lifts your Interpersonal Return On Investment, your IROI™.

I.

First Movement, Priorities Adagio · slow and smooth

01 Heartfelt Listening

Listening as the ultimate skill and superpower, the foundation that nourishes long-term working relationships.

02 Powerful Communication

How tone and tempo create productive atmospheres in conversations and meetings, building safety and trust.

03 Intentional Wellbeing

Managing stress by improving wellbeing for yourself and others through connection, peace of mind and care.

II.

Second Movement, Action Allegro · brisk and lively

04 Good Questions

Using clean questions to explore topics, grade progress, and shape helpful conversations across head, heart and hands.

05 Authentic Purpose

Uplifting the workplace by becoming more conscious of individual purposes and how they align with the work itself.

06 Conscious Harmony

Creating harmony by noticing, understanding and reducing discord, in your team and within yourself.

III.

Third Movement, Understanding Adagio · slow and steady

07 Multiple Perspectives

The flexibility of mind to move beyond habitual perception and develop the mental agility leaders need most.

08 Unique People

Relating to and bringing out the best in individual people, their roles, qualities and unique star contributions.

09 Welcome Advice

Deciding if, when and how to offer advice so that it is received, considered, and genuinely useful.

Work with Judy

Two ways to begin.

Whether you'd like the focused depth of one-to-one coaching or the shared journey of a small group, both paths rest on the same nine approaches and the same unhurried care.

3-Month Programme · One-to-One

The Good-Hearted Leader

From all your interactions, create incremental positive change that makes a HUGE difference, surprisingly quickly.

A one-to-one process with two intensives, regular coaching and practical materials for assessing your progress towards increasing your IROI. Together we'll ensure your enterprise becomes as good as is humanly possible, and that you become known as a leader who is approachable, responsive, clear, direct and respected.

  • One-day Quick-Start Intensive, in person or on Zoom, dip into each of the 9 approaches and create your plan.
  • 10 weekly coaching sessions of around one hour each, report, explore, resolve, celebrate.
  • Two paperback copies of The Slow Coach Approach, one for you, one to gift.
  • The IROI Stars Model for recording your progress, with the Right/Wrong diagram for tricky decisions.
  • Private WhatsApp access for accountability and quick connection between sessions, replies on weekdays, usually within 24 hours.
  • Half-day Reflective Intensive to complete the programme, celebrate the changes and shape what comes next.
£1,500 paid in full · or 3 monthly payments of £600
12-Week Group Programme

Good-Hearted Leadership

Walk the nine approaches alongside a small circle of leaders who take their people as seriously as their P&L.

A twelve-week journey through all nine Slow Coach approaches, held as a small group so that you can learn not only from Judy but from the reflections and real-world experiments of other good-hearted leaders working on the same things you are.

  • Twelve weekly group sessions held on Zoom, one movement at a time, one approach at a time.
  • Guided experiments between sessions so each approach becomes second nature through practice.
  • Your copy of The Slow Coach Approach as your companion reference throughout.
  • A private group space for questions, encouragement and sharing progress on your IROI Stars.
  • A closing integration session to celebrate what's changed and plan your next chapter as a leader.
Investment & next cohort dates to be announced Price TBC Next cohort date to be confirmed
Judy Barber

The Slow
Coach
Approach

How good-hearted leaders create positive change, surprisingly quickly
Judy Barber
The Book

A timely little gem for the over-achieving leader.

By investigating nine essential aspects of leadership, and by taking them together, you have the possibility of significantly increasing your IROI™. You can improve the mood of your workplace, transform communication, deal with stress and discord, create harmony, widen perspectives, be more yourself, and bring out everyone's unique star qualities.

Each chapter is built around a memorable two-word title, an Ambitious Affirmation, stories from real clients, phrases capturing the essentials, activities to try, and a signature gesture to embed the learning in the body.

Settle into The Slow Coach Approach and you will emerge a better person. Judy's way of discussing what may seem like familiar topics is different, it's like being dipped in respect and calm.

Ann Latham, author of The Power of Clarity
Praise

What leaders and thinkers are saying.

A unique, effective and much needed approach to the world of coaching and growing leaders.

Gerard O'Donovan Founder & CEO, Noble Manhattan

This book is like a calm, wise friend, full of brilliant, accessible, memorable advice on managing a relationship-centred enterprise of any size.

Sue Palmer Author of Toxic Childhood · CEO, Upstart Scotland

The ambitious affirmations and signature gestures ensure Judy's powerful principles become part of our natural leadership style.

Joe Gregory Founder, Rethink Press
Begin

Start an unhurried conversation.

Send Judy a note about where you are now and where you'd like to go. She'll reply personally, and if it feels like a fit you can book a call to begin.

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IROI™ and the Slow Coach Approach are trademarks of Judy Barber.